A good friend
once told me, “You’re never going to keep a hobby unless you spend a whole lot
of money on it.” Over the years there’ve been a number of things that caught my
interest and made me think, “Sure. I’ll give a go.” But soon enough the novelty
grows thin and what I thought may have been a new lovely hobby turns into
another dusty piece of junk cluttering my garage until I muster up enough
courage to give it away or throw it out. I’ve cycled through this pattern so
often, in fact, I occasionally wonder why I start to begin with. Yet, I do it
anyhow. And just when I think I may be onto something, something happens, my interests
take a sharp turn, and bam, another token for the garage. And then the words of
my friend come creeping back and I realize how true they are.
I guess it’s
easy to do something that’s free for a little while. But what happens with me
is I keep getting into pinches when I have to prioritize what’s most important,
do that, and drop the rest. Consequently, the cheap hobbies are always the
first to go. It’s not until the hobby is a considerable investment that it
remains on my keep list. The problem is, if I start investing too much, it ceases
being just a hobby and if I tip it even further then I may have a full blown obsession
on my hands. Ugg. Even hobbies require a balancing act.
In my mind,
hobbies have always been just a distraction from the real things in life. And
that’s what I like above them. Nothing’s riding on them. They’re not important.
They’re simple. Plus, if you have a similar sense of adventure as I do and love
to try some of the most random things, you often learn things you never imagined
yourself learning. Like what stitch works best with a puppet’s googly eyes. Or
what types of meats taste well with cinnamon. Or how pipe cleaners have about
as many uses as duct tape.
I suppose
that if you remember that hobbies are healthy distractions, it’s not a big deal
that they routinely fall by the wayside. Because even if you don’t finish it or
whatever you’re making or working on never sees its full potential, it likely
has already accomplished its purpose. Alternatively, maybe you have found a new
love of your life. Maybe you’ve found your true calling. If so, beware. There’s
likely a heavy price tag attached it.
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